by Carole Brown
Women are meant to be loved, not understood. –Oscar Wilde
Things are beautiful, if you love them enough. –Mademoiselle Colombe
Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired. –Robert Frost
People are not going to love you unless you love them. –Pat Carroll
Love betters what is best. –William Wordsworth
You know it’s love when all you want is for that person to be happy even if you’re not part of their happiness. –Julie Roberts
When love and skill work together, expect a masterpiece. –-unknown
The greater love is a mother’s, then co
mes a dog’s, then a sweetheart’s. –Polish Proverb
A heart in love with beauty never dies. –Turkey Proverb
But the greatest of these is love. –Holy Bible
by Carole Brown
February 14th is almost here, and, for most of us, the thoughts of candy, cards, flowers and other romantic items–and the ones we love–fill our hearts with warmth. Here are a few thoughts I had on some newer ways to share our love:
To the Homeless:
- Drop off a hat, scarf, coat, socks, etc., to a homeless person
- Drop off a restaurant gift card or a home cooked meal.
- Take five minutes to talk with one of them.
To a Child in Your Life:
- Play with them. Pretend. Enter their imaginary world.
- Go on a date lunch with one. Or two. Allow them to pick the eating establishment.
- Do something really crazy and fun that you’ve never done or it’s been a long, long time. It will be worth it all to see their faces light up!
- Introduce them (if they don’t already know) to some intellectual amusement/learning. Art shop. Biblical place like Noah’s Ark in Cincinnati, Ohio, A decent dinner/show event, a decent concert, a wildlife hike, some cave exploring, etc. Or simple things like building with blocks, blowing bubbles, splashing through a rain puddle, building snowmen or angels, reading a book, etc.
To the Love of Your Life:
- If you’re a man, prepare a meal with candles, low lights, scents and the music you love in the background. If you can’t cook, hire it done/ask a favor of a good cook. If you prefer, plan the kind of casual dinner event she would prefer.
- Go for a short vacation. Choose a cabin, hotel, camper, tent kind of place you both enjoy. Then make it special for your other half. Find a rock that means something special. Order a dessert he/she loves. Sit under the stars wrapped in blankets and study the stars. Talk. Relax.
- Give her the treat of a manicure, pedicure, or massage. If that’s out-of-your-budget, then give her/him a massage yourself. Make sure you have special oils to use and light music, low lights (or sunlight) of her/his preference.
- Buy her a little gifts that she loves: Books, scarves, accessories, hair items, socks (fun and serious), favorite snacks, etc.
To the God of Your Life:
- Prepare to attend your worship services with nothing in your mind but praising, serving and worshiping your God. How? Don’t plan lengthy activities for Saturday evenings. Get enough sleep the night before. Eat lightly before leaving for church. If there’s time, read a passage of scripture that can put you in the correct mood for church.
- Give! Financially if you’re able (tithes and gifts are expected, thus saith the Bible). Volunteer for church functions. If you have a musical voice, sing solo or in a choir, or join a band. Share whatever talents you have with your church and church friends. Baking, decorating, calling on phones and in person, all these and more make a difference and take loads off others.
- Study the word. Make a sacrifice. Fast. Do something that is hard for you to do. Ask God to search your heart. Lean on him. Draw closer. Pray a little extra. Do a kindness when others are being ugly. Compliment. Smile. Stay true when others are disloyal or acting shamefully. Pray for the sinner, the disobedient, those straying. Do your part by being faithful.
Love, Love, Love.
The Bible says in Corinthians, “The greatest of these is charity.”
Have a lovely month!