by Carole Brown
“I don’t care if a reader hates one of my stories,
just as long as he finishes the book.”
—Roald Dahl, WD
- Eh. It was alright. At the low low price of free I can’t complain but it was just interesting enough that I had to finish but I certainly won’t recommend it to anyone.
Lol. Free. Interesting. Had to finish. ‘Nuff said.
- I just really wish I’d known this was a “Christian” book before purchasing it – I’ll be more attentive to descriptions in the future.
What? You bought it and didn’t read the description? At least she read it, and just maybe learned her lesson!
- This book was very well written. Kept me in suspense the whole time. Felt compassion, anger, disbelief, relief, so many emotions. Felt like I was reading about real life.
Very well written, huh? Great review. I’ll take it, even though, whoever, gave it a “3-star.”
How do “bad” reviews make YOU feel? How should “we” feel when receiving them? Angry? Hurt? Disappointed? Discouraged?
We can let it hurt us to the place where we’re ready to give up writing, or…
We can buckle down, take what good (if any) we can get from the review and improve our ability, determined to grow instead of withering. Ignoring the negative, unprofitable only benefits us.
We can only grow as writers, if we learn…and that means realizing that this business is not all roses and acceptance. We must:
- Find our path. By that I mean, what are we called/what have we chosen as our writing call?
- Be true to that path. Don’t waver. If you’re called to write nonfiction, then stick to that. If you know Sci-fi is your thing, then plow straight ahead. I KNOW I’m called to write suspense/mystery. I might toss in a little humor and romance, but suspense/mystery is my core calling.
(This is not to say people can’t write in more than one genre. Not at all. Many writers spread their writing wings to cover more than one, and that’s okay. That’s their calling, their ability, their interest.)
- Accept that not everyone is going to like your writing. I was heartbroken at my first “bad” review of three stars, but as I expanded my writing, gained more experience, published more books, I’ve accepted that I can NOT please everyone.
- Grow. Use the negative to your advantage, by turning it around and helping you to gain insight into improving your craft.
- Finally, relax and be at peace. If you’ve found your path, staying true, accepting the dislikes and growing, then you’re doing what you should. Know that God is leading you on the path you should be on, the one that is the best for you, and proceed straight ahead with peace in your heart that you’re doing
all you can do.
Be glad that another person has read your book. Who knows what may stick in their mind down the road and lead them to pick up another book of yours. And if not, then it’s their problem/decision. Leave it in God’s hands.